This got me curious, so I narrowed my search to male trainers who were looking exclusively for ponyboys, then I did another quick search for ponyboys looking for male trainers - both of these yielded very few results. One disparity that I have noticed, and which I think is real, is a lack of male trainers interested in training a ponyboy. Ponyboys are such curious creatures. From the number of photos on the web, especially porn and porn-ish photos, you would think that the ponyplay scene is completely dominated by ponygirls. As far as I can tell, in the "actual" ponyplay community meaning those of us who actually do ponyplay, not just model tack for magazines or manufacturer websites the numbers of males and females are probably close to equal.
This is location dependent to a degree, but if you look at the whole, I think you'll find that ponyboys and ponygirls are present in roughly equal numbers.
Gender Distribution of People Ponies
I don't know the answer to this one Anyway, recently my trainer suggested finding a male trainer to train me for one session. She said this way too cooly for it to have been anything other a well planned remark. And while being a bottom to a male holds no interest to me outside of ponyplay, in ponyplay, as a ponyboy, the idea did hold some appeal. What I do hear a lot though are conflicting opinions on whether ponyboys outnumber ponygirls or vice versa. One question I get asked a lot is: